Today I received my first rejection of the year. I met with a couple a few weeks ago about possibly shooting their wedding later this summer. We had a great conversation, I felt we connected nicely. I described my shooting style (as best I could–I’m still trying to figure it out) and we talked about everything under the sun, sharing many laughs.
But ultimately, they decided to go with another photographer. In a very kind email, they explained why they chose someone they felt could provide more within the same budget.
Oh well…you win some, you lose some. It was a great experience meeting such a warm couple. And at least I had good conversation over coffee. Sometimes, you can’t ask for more than that.
I most certainly know the feeling!
Although I don’t shoot weddings, I deal with rejections on a regular basis, and learn from them.
But, those rejections are becoming fewer and fewer as I move along.
Just keep shooting, continue to learn, … and enjoy yourself while you are at it!
Comment by macroartinnature — February 11, 2007 @ 2:35 pm |
Thanks for the comment!
The surprising part of it all is seeing how little this rejection bothers me. Yes, I would have LOVED to shoot this wedding, but I know that more opportunities will present themselves, so I’m not worried about it.
There was a time when a simple rejection would have sent me questioning my worth as a photographer.
It’s nice to see one’s own growth, both photographically and personally.
Comment by Chantal — February 11, 2007 @ 3:08 pm |
You seem to be taking it well, and thats what will keep you going and defiantly get the next opportunity that comes up!
Good Luck.
Comment by Alicia — February 11, 2007 @ 6:03 pm |
Shooting weddings will toughen you up for anything that anyone will throw at you in life!
I learned that one a long time ago.
Keep at it!
Comment by macroartinnature — February 11, 2007 @ 10:22 pm |
We interviewed two photographers for our wedding. We chose one just because his style fit our needs more, but we wound up using the other for a smaller job. Never underestimate the long term impact of a positive encouter.
Comment by Chris — February 12, 2007 @ 2:47 pm |
Thanks for the comments and encouragement…
and you’re right Chris….I’d certainly be happy to hear from them again!
Comment by Chantal — February 12, 2007 @ 9:48 pm |